Adventures in dating in your 50s during a pandemic

The author in her home studio.


Will ‘relationship rehab’ help me find true love?

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How to find the deeper meaning in your story

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Ask the questions


A single mom contemplates combining lives with her boyfriend

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It’s not always easy dating a widowed person, but the rewards can be great.

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When the truth of a relationship lurks just beneath the surface

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Things I wish I’d known before swimming in the dating pool after being widowed.

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Coming to terms with mid-life in a ballet class with a bunch of pre-teen girls.

Author doing cartwheels on the beach in Tofino, BC, 2019 (Source: Abigail Carter)


How learning to ride a motorcycle with my 16-year-old son became a teaching moment in raising a feminist son.

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Bring on the bad-assery!

Abigail Carter

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